According to some traditions, he died c. His sister, Umm Habib bint Asad, was the matrilineal great-grandmother of Muhammad. Khadijah became a very successful merchant. It is said that she fed and clothed the poor and assisted her relatives financially and provided for poor relations.
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Khadijah is widely known as the first person to convert to Islam. It is believed that Khadijah was a Christian before converting to Islam. Khadijah was blessed with knowledge. Her father Khuwaylid had been one of the most honored leaders of their tribe until he was killed in battle. Her husband had also died, leaving her a very wealthy woman. When Muhammad peace be upon him was still a young man, she entrusted him with some of her wealth, asking him to trade with it in Syria on her behalf.
He was already well known for his honesty, truthfulness and trustworthiness. He returned from Syria after having made a large profit for Khadijah. After hearing his account of the journey, she decided that he would make the best of the husbands, even though many of the most important nobles of the Quraish had already proposed to her and had been refused, and in due course she proposed to him.
At the time of the marriage, the Prophet was twenty-five years old, while Khadijah was forty years old. For the next fifteen years they lived happily together, and Khadijah bore several children.
Their first child, a son whom they named Qasim, died when he was only two years old. Two more sons, called Tayyib and Tahir, were also born, but they too died in their infancy. No one except Allah of course, knows more about a man than his wife, both his good and his bad qualities, his strengths and his weaknesses. The more Khadijah came to know about her husband, the more she loved and respected him. Khadijah would always make sure that he was provided with food and drink during his retreat.
Towards the end of one Ramadan, when he was forty and Khadijah fifty-five, Muhammad suddenly appeared at their house in the middle of the night, trembling with fear and saying, "Cover me up, cover me up!
Quickly she wrapped a blanket around his shoulders and, when he had calmed down, she asked him to describe exactly what had happened. He told her how a being whom he had never seen before - in fact it was the angel Jibril - had suddenly appeared to him while he was asleep and had said, "Read! He woke up and ran out of the cave only to find Jibril still in front of him, and whenever he turned away from him, there Jibril was in front of him yet again, filling the horizon with his mighty yet beautiful form.
After the angel had disappeared Muhammad peace and blessings of Allah be upon him had clambered down the mountain as fast as he could run, not knowing if he was going mad and imagining things, or if he had been possessed by one of the jinn. She realized that something tremendous and awe-inspiring had happened to her husband, and she was certain, knowing him as she did, that he was neither mad nor possessed.
Allah would never humiliate you, for you are good to your relatives, you are true to your word, you help those who are in need, you support the weak, you feed the guest and you answer the call of those who are in distress.
Waraqa had studied the books of both the Jews and the Christians very closely and he had learned a great deal from many of their wisest people. He knew that the coming of another Prophet had been foretold by both Moses and Jesus, peace be on them, anhe knew many of the signs that would confirm the identity of this Prophet when he appeared. After listening closely to his story, Waraqa, who was both old and blind, exclaimed, "This is the same being who brought the revelations of Allah to Moses.
I wish I was young and could be alive whyour people will drive you out. Let me just feel your back. This was yet another of the many signs that Waraqa already knew would indicate the identity of the next Prophet after Jesus, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
Not long after this incident, Muhammad was commanded in a subsequent revelation from Allah, through the angel Jibril, to call people to worship Allah only, and it was at this point that Khadijah did not hesitate in expressing in public what she had now known for certain in secret for some time: " I bear witness that there is no god except Allah," she said, "and I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah. All her wealth was spent in the way of Allah, helping to spread the message of her husband, helping to free slaves who had embraced Islam, and helping to feed and shelter the community of Muslims that slowly but surely began to grow in numbers and strength.
The situation became so bad that the Prophet told some of his followers to go to Abyssinia, where their ruler, the Negus, who was a sincere Christian gave them shelter and protection.
Eventually there came a time when, as Waraqa had foretold, Muhammad and his followers -along with all the members of his tribe, the Banu Hashim were driven out of the city of Mecca and forced to camp out in a small ravine in the mountains nearby. This happened long after Waraqa had died, and about seven years after that extraordinary night of power in which Muhammad peace and blessings of Allah be upon him had received the first revelation of Quran through the angel Jibril.
There, while their homes lay empty in Mecca, the Muslims were exposed to the bitterly cold nights of winter and the fiery hot days of summer, with very little food and shelter. No one would buy and sell with the Muslims, or allow their sons and daughters to marry any of them.
Fortunately those who secretly sympathized with the Muslims would send what food they could to them whenever the chance arose, sometimes by loading provisions onto a camel or a horse and then sending it off at a gallop in the direction of the camp, hoping that the animal would not stop or get lost before it reached its intended destination.
For three years the small Muslim community lived a life of hardship and deprivation, but although they suffered from hunger and thirst, and from exposure to heat and cold, this was a time in which the hearts of the first Muslims were both purified and also filled with the light of knowledge and wisdom.
The Muslims knew that they were following the truth, and so nothing else mattered. They did not care what the Quraish did to them or said about them. Allah and His Messenger were enough for them!
It was during this period that the Muslims who had sought shelter in Abyssinia returned, only to find the situation even worse than when they had left it.
Not long after, many of them returned to Abyssinia, their numbers swelled by those whom the Prophet peace and blessings of Allah be upon him had told to accompany them.
Finally the boycott was lifted and the Muslims were allowed to re enter the city; but the three years of hardship had taken their toll. The Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings of Allah be upon him mourned her deeply. They had shared twenty-five years of marriage together and she had given birth to five of his children.
Khadijah had been the first to publicly accept Muhammad peace and blessings of Allah be upon him as the Messenger of Allah, and she had never stopped doing all she could to help him. Love and mercy had grown between them, increasing in quality and depth as the years passed by, and not even death could take this love away.
The Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings of Allah be upon him never stopped loving Khadijah, and although he married several more wives in later years and loved them all, it is clear that Khadijah always had a special place in his heart.
Once Aisha asked him if Khadijah had been the only woman worthy of his love. The Prophet peace and blessings of Allah be upon him replied: "She believed in me when no one else did; she accepted Islam when people rejected me; and she helped and comforted me when there was no one else to lend me a helping hand. When she comes to you, give her greetings of peace from her Lord and from me, and give her the good news of a palace of jewels in the Garden, where there will be neither any noise nor any tiredness.
It has been related by Aisha that on his way back to Mecca, Jibril appeared to the Prophet peace and blessings of Allah be upon him and said, "Allah, may He be exalted and glorified, has heard what the people have said to you and how they have responded to your invitation, and he has sent the angel in charge of the mountains so that you can tell him what you want him to with them.
I am the angel in charge of the mountains, and your Lord has sent me so that you can order me to do whatever you want. If you wish, I can bring the mountain of the outskirts of Mecca together so that they are crushed between them.
Did he not find you an orphan and protect you? Did he not find you wandering and guide you? Did he not find you destitute and enrich you? So do not oppress the orphan, And do not drive the beggar away, And speak about the blessings of Your Lord.
Quran And so it happened. After three years of constant struggle, a relative of his, called Khawla, went to him and pointed out that his house was sadly neglected and that his daughters needed a mother to look after them.
Like Khadijah, he had done all that he could do to help the Prophet peace and blessings of Allah be upon him , and had spent all his wealth in the way of Allah. However, while the Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings of Allah be upon him was now fifty-three years old, Aisha as only a little girl of seven. Khawla had a solution for everything.
Khadijah bint Khuwaylid facts for kids
Variant traditions claim other years. Her known siblings were two brothers, Hizam  and Al-Awwam,  two sisters, Ruqayqa  and Hala,  and a paternal half-brother, Nawfal. They were now serious contenders for the leadership of the city. Atiq and Khadijah had two children, suggesting — since Khadijah produced her children within two-year intervals  — that the marriage lasted between two and four years. From their daughter, Hind, Khadijah derived her kunya Umm Hind. In the way of nomads who aspired to an urban lifestyle, Malik and his two brothers had immigrated to Mecca and formed an alliance with the Abduldar clan of the Quraysh.
Important Figures: Khadijah bint Khuwaylid
AD in the Sacrilegious War, but according to others, he was still alive when Khadijah married Muhammad in In Khadijah needed a co-worker for a transaction in Syria. She chose Muhammad ibn Abdullah for the trade in Syria. Upon returning, Maysarah gave accounts of the honorable way that Muhammad had conducted his business, with the result that he brought back twice as much profit as Khadijah had expected. This marriage also left Khadijah as a widow. At the time of the marriage Muhammad was 25 years old and Khadijah was 40 years old. After her death, Muhammad took other wives.
Khadijah bint Khuwaylid
Many choose this name to commemorate the first wife of the Prophet Muhammad. Even though Khadijah only lived to see the early stages of a Muslim community, she was considered a central figure in the history of Islam. Khadijah is the focus of this post, the fifth in a series on significant figures in Islam. Khadijah was born around in Mecca. Her father, Khuwaylid bin Asad, was a popular leader in the tribe of Quraysh and a successful businessman, who eventually died in battle. In addition to her business savvy, Khadijah was known to have good character, often feeding and clothing the poor and assisting her relatives in need. Before marrying the Prophet Muhammad, Khadijah was widowed twice.